Our Fourth Day meetings in Ada, Ardmore, and Durant were the best attended in years. I attended the one in Ardmore. And since we don't have Gatherings during Walk months (two times a year), it was great to see everyone, especially those who had just completed their Walks. The Ardmore meeting had a full contingent of sponsors and pilgrims who had gathered to form or join a Reunion Group. Pilgrims, and even some sponsors, found what they were looking for.
At the Fourth Day meeting I mentioned several characteristics of an effective Emmaus Reunion Group. In the days following, several sponsors have come up to me and mentioned that fact that their Reunion Group doesn't exactly follow the service sheet structure. Some don't follow it at all. Is that OK?
While there is a great amount of flexibility in how you conduct your Reunion Group meeting, there are certain aspects that must be adhered to. If you bypass the basic structure, you are really inviting disaster. Most certainly, people will either stop coming or they will find themselves not being held accountable. The session could very easily turn into a "gossip" session or a session where members talk about the latest ballgame or grandchild or just "catching up." And, lastly, it may become an Emmaus Reunion Group in name only.
If you are not spending time with the Lord in daily devotions, you can certainly "skip over" that by not doing the "Piety, Study, and Action" section in your Reunion Group sharing. If you don't have a "Closest to Christ," there's no one to put your feet to the fire when you don't cover it. If you can't remember a "Failure in your call to Discipleship," there's certainly no one who can lovingly hold you accountable.
There are times when someone in my Reunion Group will come in jolted from a hard experience during the week. We allow time for that person to share, abbreviate the remainder of our time together by sharing our "Closest to Christ," and then adjourn after our "Prayer of Thanksgiving."
If you want what you got on your Walk to be perpetuated, an effective Reunion Group can greatly facilitate that. I find that my Reunion Group holds me accountable in my walk with God, but only if we follow the service sheet structure and we honestly share what's going on in our Christian lives. I like what many have said about the Emmaus model, "If it ain't broke, don't try to fix it."
De Colores
Dan Patman, Community Spiritual Director
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